Hi! This girl is just one of a tonne of people into BDSM - or bondage, dominance, submission and masochism. I've been into BDSM about five years now and explored quite a lot within that time!.

My main interests in BDSM are electrics, suspension, ponyplay, latex,breath play, medical play and bondage. Although I am pretty openminded and open to trying new things. I am 27 and based in the northern reaches of the UK.

I am lucky really in that I have a great Master and partner in crime - Grimly, who I love and we have now been together for around 3 years. We met after I read a post of his on IC which I found intriguing, we got chatting and then met up. For a while we had a casual play thing going on which then developed into a full blown D/s and loving relationship and my blog should record how that has developed and matured over time.

I am happy and proud that I am a submisisive and a masochist. For a while i wasnt comfortable with my submission but i have gained more confidence with it.

My Master is very imaginative and creative and wicked but with a good sense of humour at the same time! He makes a lot of his own equipment and I am hoping eventually to set up a site in its own right for him to showcase this. We dont make equipment for sale though, just unique bespoke things for ourselves and sometimes for friends. His most intriguing project to date has been a dentist chair with built in electrics, restraints, and breath control.

I hope you enjoy what I've written here and on my blog - please feel free to leave comments or get in touch to discuss anything i've commented on.

You will notice my blog posts are written third person, I dont speak like that day to day of course, but for writing it helps me reflect on the experience and be sort of on the outside looking in and the inside looking out. I dont write that way elsewhere i.e. in email or chat.

I hope you have enjoyed my profile! :) Feedback is much appreciated, if you just want to say nice pictures you can use the guestbook. I don't generally do 'chat' tho i appreciate contact if you've got something interesting to say! Though generally if your contact is a one sentenced pick up line if i dont reply to the first one i'm probably not going to reply to the sixth identical one either.

Best wishes

This Girl
xx

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***** NEW 21 february*****

The Dollhouse
This girl has just started watching series 1 of the Dollhouse. For people that haven’t seen it, it’s a bit like across between la femme nikita ,stepford wives and the film paycheck. It follows the central character, Echo, after she has been sent to the dollhouse after some sort of criminal wrongdoing. There, her memories are wiped and she is given new ones to undertake assignments before her memory is wiped again afterwards. In a way its a bit like prostitution , in that some assignments she’ll be the girlfriend or in others she’ll have a different role such as a hostage negotiator or singer. Inbetween assignments she is almost an empty shell.

and recently....

Subwise 7 : romance
Romance in D/s Relationships: What do you consider romantic? How is romance alive in your dynamic? Is it different than if you were in a vanilla relationship?

The wetter the better

This morning for instance. He decided to get revenge for the incident. Oh yes, a Grimly never forgets!
He woke up in the night wanting a drink of water, holding it in his hand, he thought back to that moment when this girl had soaked him and woke him up and decided to do the same back to her. What a bastard!

The face behind the nightmare
This girl sometimes forgets that Grimly is the man of her dreams, because day to day normality sometimes makes that dream world seem a bit unbelievable or out of reach. Because, when you’re in a couple…there’s always something else going on. Like christmas, or car repairs (or, lately car modfications lol) or wondering what to have for tea. Like anyone else this girl has boring and routine things in life too! So….sometimes she forgets how lucky she was to find the man of her dreams.

New Year Traditions
Lots of countries and cultures have special traditions at new years from fireworks to singing auld lang syne and kissing that special someone to maybe some slighter more bizarre traditions......

A review of 2009
Well as this year goes out here is the review of this girl’s year of pervertery, with a bit about each month and a quote from the first blog of each month also! Feel free to browse the archives and the photo galleries for more info if you want to!

Creature Comforts
When this girl was in Vancouver in the autumn she was lucky enough to try JG Leathers’ creature twice. The second time being on the last night of the holiday after meeting the lovely Padme.

Merry Christmas

146 Horsepower
145 of those belong to the car this girl bought recently. But she also got to play with Gypsy, a very pretty pony girl as well the same weekend she got the car…too many guilty pleasures in one weekend?? Perhaps!

Christmas shopping
This girl is even less organised this year for Christmas than any other year…ever! And, actually, is quite proud of it!

Top gear
Really sorry for the lack of updates at the moment! This girl has been busy with having fun, working too much and this girl has a new passion as well! A new car! There is really not a lot of time or inclination for the internet at the moment since there are way too many other distractions
These pictures are *not* of what this girl has bought, but what she has got is almost as fun.
These pictures are of the wheels STEFFY had the use of whilst we were in Vancouver…..enjoy!