As a 6ft, early-30s male, built like a pollarded tree, with solid muscled legs, wide trunk, but thin arms tapering to vulnerable wrists, he considers the reflected appearance in the mirror as above average (subject to peer review). The all natural version does come with a pale skin finish, augmented by a thin fur and thicker hair, but alternative and shinier surface finishes are available for private use during selected evenings and weekends.

Previously found and wrapped, and binding, but subsequently solo. A quiet path being followed for a time, while adventures have continued along other avenues. Yet, with a certain sense of missing fulfilment, highlighted by life events, I find myself acknowledging here the need to seek those who appreciate that certain zest.

It's not that I don't like the cake of romance, nor that the cherry of orgasm is not pleasantly enjoyed, but when you've recognised a long hard-wired need for that exquisite restraint, a shiny surface coating, you know what your icing on the cake is - and I'm more than happy just to have the icing.

So I seek trusted friends or more, male and female, with all the benefits that might bring, to privately share some time, or to give and receive in equal measure or depending on preference. I seek those in the know to advise and impart, to discuss and cajole, to know and acknowledge.

I look to stand as a shiny presence, for the encasement of fantasy to lay me flat out, or to float cocooned in a tight embrace. Perhaps there will be an afternoon adventure with mild peril, or when night falls I'll be bound to eventually sleep. But most importantly, the sharing of that shininess and the assisting the satisfaction of needs, safely, discreetly, and maybe just a little sexily.